Craig and Jane met online and quickly discovered a strong connection. From their first date to countless conversations, they built a relationship based on honesty, shared interests, and mutual respect. Their story shows how patience and openness can lead to lasting love at any stage of life.
How did you meet? What was your first date like?
We started talking on Christian Mingle, then emailed back and forth. Finally, we spoke on the phone and arranged a meeting since we were 4.5 hours apart. Our first date was great, but after speaking for three months, we were ready to meet in person to see if there was really a spark or just a good friendship.
Describe the moment you knew it was true love!
In your mid-fifties, you know what you’re looking for: a history of truth (which is why it’s important to be very open in your early communications—personal social media, access to friends’ social media, willingness to answer questions in person), shared interests, shared faith, and a level of comfort in the relationship. When we met for the first time, we realized all of that was there. We opted for a second date… then a third… and the rest is history. It all started with lengthy conversations via email, text, social media, and finally voice-to-voice.
What can you tell us about the proposal?
“Will you marry me?” Yes. Pretty simple.
What can you tell us about the wedding?
Our wedding included our three children (two hers, one mine), my mother, her friend, and a pastor friend of mine. We were married on a golf course in Rocky River, Ohio. Everyone wore formal dress, and we had a catered dinner at the country club, finishing with shared dessert for the whole restaurant—which was a lot of fun!
What advice would you give other Christian Mingle members who are still looking for love?
Openness and honesty are key. Let there be no hidden issues. Make sure you answer possible questions before they’re asked. It may be difficult, but these questions will come up later, so dealing with them early is best. Be honest about your past:
Have you been hurt? Say so.
Have you been married before? Say how many times.
Do you have children? Tell your potential partner how many and explain your relationship and visitation status with the other parent.
Not all of this will come up on the first date or initial conversations, but it will eventually. Be prepared to answer honestly. If it is being led by God, remember that God is an honest God and expects the same from us. Leave the results to Him. You don’t need a partner—you want one.
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