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Often we seem to have a failure to communicate…or we have a failure to communicate in a way that another person understands. Either way, it's a problem. Every person on this planet has at one point in time made the assumption that other people see, understand, feel and think the same way that they do.

Too bad that assumption is wrong.

Every Color Code personality has a distinct way of interpreting information and passing it on (i.e., sensing and communicating). For example, if your core color is RED and you want the person you are dating to stop seeing other people, you would probably say something like, "I want you to stop seeing other people." If your core color is BLUE, you may say something along the lines of, "Well, you know, I was thinking that I like you, and you like me, so, I think that we should see more of each other, and you know, maybe less of other people. Unless that's not want you want, because I certainly don't want to force you to do something that you don't want. You know, when you feel forced then it gets weird… I'm sorry, I'm babbling. It's been a really long day and it all started on my way to work this morning…" The RED is thinking, "You're talking, but are you saying anything?" or "Get to the point already!"

The funny thing is that, often, we want the same things; it's just that we present these things to each other in a way that WE understand them, not in the way that the OTHER PERSON understands.

If you have not already done so, you will want to take the FREE version of The Color Code Personality Profile on ChristianMingle. It will give you a lot of information about yourself and your personality style. Once you have done this, you can upgrade your profile to the comprehensive analysis so you don't the invaluable dating insights to help you communicate with people in a way that will get them interested in you. Your upgraded profile will be written uniquely for you, and it will teach you how to speak four foreign languages in less than an hour—RED, BLUE, WHITE and YELLOW.

In the meantime, here is a quick synopsis of how the four Colors communicate:

REDLogicQuick and to the point, often tactless
BLUEEmotionDetailed, sincere, and often long-winded
WHITELogicCommunicates little, quiet, can be boring
YELLOWEmotionLoves to talk, high energy, can be interruptive

ColorCommunicates most naturally with…Why?
REDWHITESBoth logical & don't need a lot of conversation
BLUEYELLOWSBoth emotional & love to talk and share

ColorCommunicates least naturally with…Why?
REDBLUESLogic vs. Emotion and quick vs. drawn-out
WHITEYELLOWSLogic vs. Emotion and YELLOWS want interaction while WHITES want quiet

The key to effective communication is to learn what makes the other person tick and how to present your ideas in a way that they will understand and become excited about them.

The Color Code is all about helping you communicate more effectively and initiate and build positive relationships with others. You owe it to yourself to acquire and learn the life-changing skill sets that The Color Code can provide.

Know "The Code" - it will do wonders for your communication skills (and your love life, too!).

Click here to take the Color Code Personality Test.

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